Read This: Find Your Red Thread: Make Your Big Ideas Irresistible

Are you a solopreneur or small business owner searching for that elusive ingredient that will make your ideas resonate and your business thrive? Find Your Red Thread by Tamsen Webster is a transformative book that unveils the secret to turning your big ideas into irresistible propositions. Whether you’re struggling to stand out in a crowded market or seeking a more authentic connection with your audience, Find Your Red Thread could be more than just a book—it might be the blueprint you need to bring clarity, purpose, and success to your entrepreneurial journey. Read on to discover how this book can be the catalyst for your next big breakthrough.

  1. Target Audience: Anyone who has a big idea and wants to communicate that idea clearly. Because I work with solopreneurs and small business owners, I find this book particularly helpful for the kind of people I work with,  individuals running their own businesses looking for effective ways to communicate their unique value proposition and stand out in the market. I do think this book would also be enormously helpful for marketing professionals,  coaches and consultants— people who are looking for better ways to articulate their ideas and concepts to clients.
  2. Key Points and Action Steps:
    • The Concept of the Red Thread: The book introduces the ‘Red Thread’ as a metaphor for the underlying message or theme that ties together an idea, story, or business strategy. It emphasizes finding and articulating this central thread to make ideas more compelling and understandable.
    • Defining Clear Goals: Webster stresses the importance of having clear, well-defined goals. For solopreneurs, this means understanding what they want their business to achieve and what unique value they offer.
    • Problem Identification: A significant portion of the book is dedicated to identifying and articulating the problems that a business or idea is solving. This is vital for targeted marketing and for ensuring that the business is addressing genuine needs.
    • Establishing Core Truths: The author encourages finding a core truth or principle that defines your business or idea. This truth serves as a guide for both personal development and business strategies.
    • Actionable Steps for Change: The book outlines how to define the change your business promises and the actions needed to realize this change, providing a roadmap for business growth and strategy implementation.
    • Effective Communication: Webster provides guidance on creating a compelling statement or pitch that encapsulates your ‘Red Thread,’ essential for effective marketing, networking, and brand building.
  3. Themes:
    • Clarity and Purpose: The central theme is the importance of clarity and purpose in business and personal endeavors. Understanding your ‘Red Thread’ helps maintain focus and direction.
    • Storytelling in Business: The book emphasizes the power of narrative and storytelling in making business ideas resonate with the audience, an essential aspect of marketing and brand building.
    • Alignment of Personal and Business Growth: There’s a strong theme of aligning personal values with business objectives, which is particularly relevant for solopreneurs, whose personal and professional lives are often closely intertwined.
  4. Unique Insights:
    • Unique Value Proposition: Solopreneurs can use the ‘Red Thread’ concept to clarify and communicate their unique value proposition, setting them apart in a crowded market.
    • Authentic Marketing: The book’s focus on storytelling and core truths offers a more authentic approach to marketing, moving away from traditional sales pitches to narratives that genuinely connect with the audience.
    • Strategic Planning: Webster’s framework can assist in strategic planning, ensuring that business actions are aligned with the overarching goals and values, leading to more cohesive and effective growth strategies.
    • Personal and Professional Synergy: The book encourages solopreneurs to find a balance where their personal beliefs and business objectives support and enhance each other, leading to more sustainable growth and personal fulfillment.

Find Your Red Thread provides a framework that can be exceptionally beneficial for solopreneurs and small business owners in clarifying their business’s purpose, enhancing their marketing strategies, and aligning their personal growth with their business goals.

Caveat: the effectiveness of these concepts largely depends on the business owner’s ability to introspect, adapt, and apply these ideas in the context of their specific business challenges and opportunities. And that requires time. And that’s something many of us feel like we don’t have enough of.

But my question to you is, if not now, when? When are you ever going to take the time to do the important but not urgent work in your business? And how long will you be able to go on, struggling to get your message out there in the world? Take the time now to do this right and you will reap the rewards far into your better future.

About the Author

Ron Tester is a Certified Executive Coach and Book Yourself® Solid Coach who helps service professionals and solopreneurs grow their businesses without sacrificing their personal lives. With over 20 years of entrepreneurial experience, Ron provides practical guidance on marketing, sales, operations, and work-life balance. Learn more at

Read This: Book Yourself Solid

What book have I given away/recommended more than any other book? I’m not 100% sure, but Book Yourself Solid by Michael Port has to be in the running. BYS is a systematic and practical guide designed to help small business owners develop and implement robust marketing and sales strategies to grow their businesses. Here’s what you need to know:

  1. Target Audience: This book is particularly beneficial for small business owners who love what they do but struggle with the marketing and sales aspects of their business. It’s ideal for those who offer professional services and are looking to build a client base that is not only large but also aligned with their business values and goals. This includes coaches, consultants, therapists, and other service-oriented professionals who seek to establish a strong personal brand and a steady flow of clients.
  2. Key Points and Action Steps:
    • Building a Strong Foundation: The book emphasizes the importance of understanding your ideal client and how to communicate your unique value proposition. Action Step: Identify your target market and develop a clear message that resonates with them. Do this before moving on to other parts of the system and before investing in a lot of marketing.
    • Networking and Referrals: Do you hate networking? You’ll learn practical strategies for effective (and relatively pain-free) networking in BYS. You’ll also learn how to create referral partnerships so others will send you business. Action Step: Establish especially close relationships with a few other professionals who can and will refer clients to you and vice versa.
    • Sales Cycle Management: The book provides insights into managing the sales cycle effectively, from initial contact to closing the deal. Instead of thinking of customers as people who must come in at the top of your marketing funnel and work their way down, they can step into your cycle wherever it makes sense for them. Action Step: Develop a systematic approach for tracking and nurturing leads through the sales process, allowing potential customers to decide where they want to enter.
    • Online Presence: Emphasizing the importance of an online presence, the book guides you in effectively creating a compelling website and using social media. Although this is one of the first things new business owners do, it should be well down the road. You need to establish a firm foundation before you try to attract people into your world. Action Step: Optimize your website for your target audience and engage with them through social media platforms once you’ve established the other pillars of your marketing and sales system.
    • Offering Multiple Price Points: BYS suggests offering services at various price points to cater to different client needs. Some clients need a little taste of what you can do before they go all in. This is especially true if your signature offering is a significant investment. Action Step: Develop a tiered service model that allows clients to choose a level of service that fits their budget while allowing them to experience the good work you do.
  3. Unique Insights:
    • The Red Velvet Rope Policy: BYS introduces the concept of the “Red Velvet Rope Policy,” which encourages choosing clients that energize and inspire you, rather than working with anyone who can pay. This approach is unique as it focuses on quality client relationships over quantity, leading to more fulfilling and sustainable business practices.
    • Personal Brand Development: Unlike generic marketing advice, the book delves deep into personal brand development, emphasizing authenticity and personal connection in business relationships. If you want to go even deeper into building a personal brand, check out my blog post about Jessica Zweig’s Be.
    • Systematic and Holistic Approach: Book Yourself Solid provides a comprehensive, step-by-step, do-this-in-this-order system that covers all aspects of client acquisition and retention, which is often missing in other books/methodologies that only focus on specific aspects of business growth.

Can I be honest with you? As I reread the information above, it all sounds bland. Who doesn’t think they should network or establish an online presence? Here’s the thing, though. BYS is a comprehensive system that shows you what to do and how to do it. And there’s no way I can do it justice in this summary. I probably wouldn’t have given so many copies of the book away if there were. It’s sort of like describing the Taj Mahal as a big, whitish building. True, but WHAT A BUILDING!

Book Yourself Solid is a valuable resource for solopreneurs and small business owners serious about growing their business through strategic marketing and sales approaches, building meaningful client relationships, and developing a strong personal brand. The practical, actionable advice it provides can yield immediate and tangible results for those who apply it. I highly recommend it!

About the Author

Ron Tester is a Certified Executive Coach and Book Yourself® Solid Coach who helps service professionals and solopreneurs grow their businesses without sacrificing their personal lives. With over 20 years of entrepreneurial experience, Ron provides practical guidance on marketing, sales, operations, and work-life balance. Learn more at

Read This: The Mom Test: How to Talk to Customers & Learn If Your Business Is a Good Idea When Everyone Is Lying to You

As a growth strategist, I’ve seen many enthusiastic new business owners and founders fall into a common trap: they’re so captivated by their business idea that they overlook the crucial step of validating it with real-world feedback. This is where Rob Fitzpatrick’s The Mom Test comes in as a game-changer. While Steve Blank’s The Four Steps to the Epiphany encourages founders to “get out of the building” and talk to customers, The Mom Test takes it a step further. It teaches you how to engage in conversations that avoid leading questions and prevent the false validation trap. By doing so, it ensures that the feedback you receive is genuine and actionable, not just polite affirmations that fail to truly validate your idea. For anyone starting a new venture, this book is an indispensable tool for gathering the insights needed to succeed in today’s competitive market.

1. Target Audience

This book is particularly beneficial for:


    • Entrepreneurs and Start-up Founders who are developing new business ideas or products.

    • Product Managers and Marketers seeking effective ways to gather customer feedback.

    • Solopreneurs who need to validate their business ideas with limited resources.

2. Key Points and Action Steps


    • The Mom Test Method: A technique for obtaining honest feedback, avoiding biased and overly positive responses.

    • Three-Step Process for Interviews:


        1. Focus on the customer’s life, not your idea.

        1. Prioritize specifics about the past over future speculations.

        1. Emphasize listening over talking.

    • Avoid Leading Questions: Steer clear of questions that seek validation rather than truth.

3. Unique Insights


    • Practical, Actionable Advice: The book offers a hands-on guide for conducting customer interviews, moving beyond theoretical advice.

    • Focus on Problem-Solving: Shifts the focus from seeking approval for the business idea to understanding and addressing customer problems.

    • Recovery Techniques: Provides strategies to recover from unproductive conversations and redirect them toward meaningful dialogue.

The Mom Test details a unique and pragmatic approach to customer feedback and business development, making it a valuable read for anyone looking to create products or services that truly resonate with their target market. The book’s focus on honest communication and understanding customer needs provides a robust framework for entrepreneurs and business leaders. If you’re developing a new business or a new offer and you want to get better at integrating feedback from potential customers into your decision-making, I highly recommend Rob Fitzpatrick’s The Mom Test

About the Author

Ron Tester is a Certified Executive Coach and Book Yourself® Solid Coach who helps service professionals and solopreneurs grow their businesses without sacrificing their personal lives. With over 20 years of entrepreneurial experience, Ron provides practical guidance on marketing, sales, operations, and work-life balance. Learn more at

Read This: Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything

If you’re obsessed with productivity (and I’m going to assume you are), and you’re struggling to improve your habits (again, I’m assuming you are), then you should read this book. For the record, I’ve read almost all of the popular habits books over the past 15 years or so (did I mention I’m obsessed?). And while all of them are helpful, none is better than Tiny Habits by B. J. Fogg.

1. Target Audience

The target audience for Tiny Habits is really anyone who wants to improve their habits. But I’m recommending it to small business owners and solopreneurs who are looking to improve their productivity, efficiency, and overall well-being through small, manageable changes in their daily routines. This book is especially helpful for:

  • Solopreneurs and small business owners who often juggle multiple roles and responsibilities.
  • Busy Small Business Owners who struggle with time management and are seeking ways to optimize their daily habits for better business outcomes.
  • People Seeking Work-Life Flow who want a rewarding work life AND a rewarding personal life (seems selfish, I know).
  • Start-up Founders who need to establish productive routines and habits as they grow their businesses.

2. Key Points and Action Steps

  • Start Small for Lasting Change: Focus on tiny, manageable actions to create sustainable behavior change. This approach is more effective than attempting large, drastic changes. Yes, I know in some circles this idea is controversial, but it’s backed by science. (FYI Dr. B. J. Fogg founded the Behavior Design Lab at Stanford University.)
  • Fogg Behavior Model (B=MAP): Behavior is a function of Motivation, Ability, and Prompt. All three elements must be present for a behavior to occur.
    • Motivation: Often unreliable and less crucial than commonly believed.
    • Ability: Making a behavior easier is key to the Tiny Habits method.
    • Prompt: Acts as the trigger for the behavior.
  • Behavior Design Process:
    • Define clear aspirations or goals.
    • Brainstorm a variety of specific behaviors to achieve these goals.
    • Identify impactful and doable behaviors (Golden Behaviors).
    • Scale down behaviors to their simplest form.

3. Unique Insights

  • Fogg’s approach challenges the common belief that significant changes require high motivation and drastic actions. Instead, it emphasizes the power of small, incremental changes.
  • The book takes a scientific perspective on habit formation, moving away from moral judgments of “good” and “bad” habits, focusing instead on the practical aspects of behavior change.
  • Fogg’s method stands out for its simplicity and ease of implementation. Unlike other self-help methods that may require substantial shifts in lifestyle or mindset, Tiny Habits focuses on tiny, non-intimidating steps that can be integrated easily into daily life.
  • The B=MAP model offers a unique, structured way to dissect and understand behavior, providing a clear framework for habit formation that can be applied in various contexts, including business.

Transforming our habits and, by extension, our lives, doesn’t have to be daunting or overwhelming. Whether you’re a solopreneur struggling to balance work and personal life, or a seasoned business owner looking to refine your daily routines, this book offers a practical, science-backed roadmap. By breaking down habit formation into small, manageable steps, Fogg not only demystifies the process but also makes it accessible and achievable for everyone. For those looking to make lasting changes with small, confident steps, Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything by B.J. Fogg is your go-to guide.

About the Author

Ron Tester is a Certified Executive Coach and Book Yourself® Solid Coach who helps service professionals and solopreneurs grow their businesses without sacrificing their personal lives. With over 20 years of entrepreneurial experience, Ron provides practical guidance on marketing, sales, operations, and work-life balance. Learn more at

Read This: Be: A No-Bullsh*t Guide to Increasing Your Self Worth and Net Worth by Simply Being Yourself

I love this book. It’s so good I bought physical version, the Kindle version, the Audible version, and the workbook (which only comes in physical form). I’ve recommended it to countless friends and coaching clients.

If you’re looking to improve your personal brand or show up authentically and fully expressed in the world, this book (and the work you do with it) might be the key that unlocks that door for you.

Be: A No-Bullsh*t Guide to Increasing Your Self Worth and Net Worth by Simply Being Yourself by Jessica Zweig is a guide that focuses on building authenticity in personal and professional branding.

  1. Target Audience: This book is most beneficial for solopreneurs and business owners at any stage who are looking to develop a strong personal brand. It’s particularly useful for those who feel stuck in expressing their authentic selves in their professional lives and want to align their personal values with their business brand. Too many of my coaching clients are afraid to show up in the world because they don’t like who they think they have to “become” or at least who they have to “portray” being out in the world. This book will show you a different, better way.
  2. Key Points and Action Steps:
    • Embrace Your Story: Accept and own your unique experiences. This includes acknowledging your flaws and imperfections as part of your authenticity.
    • Define Your Personal Brand: Use the Personal Brand Hologram™ to combine your professional value with your authentic personality, helping you stand out online. I can’t detail it all here, but this is one of the most useful tools I’ve seen when thinking about your personal brand.
    • Develop a Digital Strategy: Implement the Pinnacle Content Framework™ to attract the right clients and grow your business. Again, a super valuable tool.
    • Establish Thought Leadership: Use Orion’s PR Roadmap™ to enhance your brand’s perception and establish yourself as a thought leader in the media. Being a thought leader is incredibly important and almost everyone wants to be one. This will help you to establish yourself as one. Spoiler alert: this will require deep thinking.
    • Create Consistent Content: Utilize the Supernova™ method for creating consistent, impactful content that establishes your expertise. Did I mention that this book is full of helpful tools you can use?
    • Build an Online Following: Follow the 10 Evergreen Principles of Social Media for sustainable audience growth.
    • Overcome Fear of Judgment: Release the fear of others’ opinions to shine with unapologetic authenticity. This is probably the hardest part for me, but I’m working on it.
  3. Unique Insights:
    • Zweig emphasizes the importance of authenticity in a world where marketing often focuses on superficial brand images. She argues that true authenticity involves being unfiltered, unapologetic, and honest, even in the face of potential judgment.
    • The book introduces unique frameworks and tools, like the Personal Brand Hologram™ and the Supernova™, offering structured approaches to developing a personal brand and creating content. So many helpful tools….
    • Zweig highlights the idea that imperfections and personal challenges are not just parts of our stories to be hidden but are actually key resources in building a relatable and authentic brand​​​​.

These insights and steps offer a holistic approach to personal branding, emphasizing authenticity, consistency, and alignment of personal values with professional endeavors. If that sounds like something you’d be interested in, I highly recommend picking up Be: A No-Bullsh*t Guide to Increasing Your Self Worth and Net Worth by Simply Being Yourself by Jessica Zweig.

About the Author

Ron Tester is a Certified Executive Coach and Book Yourself® Solid Coach who helps service professionals and solopreneurs grow their businesses without sacrificing their personal lives. With over 20 years of entrepreneurial experience, Ron provides practical guidance on marketing, sales, operations, and work-life balance. Learn more at